Hello Mystress, I am now at lesson 4 of the course, I do not really understand yet what you mean by Dominatrix, slave, nor what your student meant in her essay over sadism or masochism.. I must admit I find it difficult to see what all this has to do with Tantra,but may be it will be clear later...
I read in one of your links that you are an Ascended Master. Is an ascended Master someone who has infused her body so much with light that the body is pure light and can be taken with her after death? Why does being invisible means that you are an ascended Master? Could there not be people who succeed with a Sidhi of invisibility and are still not ascended Masters? I am anyway very inspired to be such a Being. Can you please show me the way? Is it enough to saturate the body with light? You mention that when you take the karma from people you get heavier and are then not on the level of ascended Master. I too notice that helping people makes me heavier, but I thought that it is because I still have to learn to be immersed in the light till  everything is only and always light and consciousness. Is it not so?
I thought if you are an Ascended Master I can may be communicate with you without internet, so I sent you all love and did feel your presence very strongly...
Thank you for your help and blessings
DeviRam

: Hello Mystress, I am now at lesson 4 of the course, I do not really understand yet what you mean by Dominatrix, slave, nor what your student meant in her essay over sadism or masochism.. I must admit I find it difficult to see what all this has to do with Tantra, but may be it will be clear later...

You are so sweet! You do not see it, because it is natural for you... and partly because you are really not in your body enough to understand it. It is of the body.

 Dominance is what you do in your healing work. People give you their power and you use that power to do things with them. Change them. They are your slave, for a little while. You take on responsibility and ownership for parts of their ego- karma.

 Dominance is leadership, in the broadest sense.

  The SM stuff is about using that dynamic for sexual pleasure.

 Sadism is how I laugh when I hit the remote control to the electric dog collar that druid puts around his penis and balls. Maschocism is how he likes to feel vulnerable in that way, so much that he would buy an electic dog collar and adjust it to fit his most vulnerable place... and give me the remote control. he is giving me power, and wants me to demonstrate my power over him. When he surrenders to that, it changes the pain to pleasure and he gets tons of tantric energy plus blissful endorphins. When I torture druid in pleasurable ways, he gets so fired up with shakti that he gets kriyas of laughing uncontrollably and speaking in tongues. Everybody else laughs too, the energy is so contagious. It is total bliss of a type you cannot feel unless you are in your body.

 Even when you do get into your body, you may not want to play these games. Finding interest in acting them out is a sexual orientation, a polarity... but power games is also something all humans do. People who are interested in them enough to act them out, have an eye opening experience in learning how they are played unconsciously by everybody, and how that is the root of human unhappiness.

 It is a metaphor for our relationship to the Divine. The strength that comes of vulnerability and humility... how gratitude can change the pain in life, to pleasure. It is Shamanic, too... it changes your relationship to your body. Pain can be wonderfully focusing.

  To the extent we resist pain, we shut ourselves off to pleasure too. You left your body to escape the pain of life, and now you cannot orgasm. As your body heals through surrender to the Divine Beloved, your ability to feel pleasure will increase more than you can even imagine.

: I read in one of your links that you are an Ascended Master. Is an ascended Master someone who has infused her body so much with light that the body is pure light and can be taken with her after death?

Yes, and not necessarily. Many yogis decide to take on a lot of karma when they are ready to go, and let the body wear out. In that case, the body will be left behind, surrendered for Goddess to transmute the karma through the natural processes of decay. But the energy body which is like a blueprint for the physical, has become so strong and clear that they can use it to manifest themselves to continue to care for their devotees and other seekers. The physical sheath is abandoned, but the energy body has become very strong and they take that with them. So, they do not get lost in time and memories like regular ghosts do. They have presence and are able to affect the physical world.  

It is a little difficult to define what an ascended Master is, because as soon as you begin to define it you come into the question of what is physical... matter is energy. How that looks is very different, for each chakra dimension.

When I asked about my invisibility, I was told that my body was vibrating faster than light... the light could not catch it, to bounce off of so I would be visible. Goes straight through and reflects what is behind me, back to the eye of the beholder.

 At the same time, though it comes when I am not aware of myself. When my consciousness is merged with my surroundings and I have not boundaries of self-not self. No ego. Ego is the separation. The arua is a shadow of karma. It has also been observed when I am out of body... off in my mind checking on someone. Not present.

 I remember one occasion... it was very memorable. I was attending Beltaine.. a 3 day pagan event every May. Beautiful sunny day. I showed up around noon with two friends and a 16' high wickerman, and the people at the gate welcomed us. We set about putting up our tent, etc... then I started wandering around the site. It was odd, I would wave hello to people I have known for years and there was no recognition. I wondered if I had done something to offend them, but that seemed unlikely so I let it go.
 All through the ritual, the High Priest (a close friend) seemed to be skipping past me when he went around the circle smudging and sprinkling people. I thought that was odd but did not worry.
 It was not until after the ritual that it occurred to me that I was invisible. I laughed to myself, and simply opened to accepting some ambient karma to lower my vibration so I could be social. Then, people started saying hello to me and asking when I had arrived. LOL!!
 Because I had taken on Pagan karma, I grew a pagan ego for the weekend. It poured rain all night, and at one point someone commented on it and I said it was symbolic of fertility... Beltaine is a spring fertility ritual. He looked me in the eye and said, "that is what you believe?" and ... hard to explain, because while it was what I felt in the moment, there was some part of me that knew the belief was situational but I could not explain it. I was being Pagan, pagan karma and a pagan ego. When I am ascended, I feel no need to find reasons for what Is. Rain is just rain, it just Is. After we came home from the event, I slept 12 hours, shedding the karma I had taken on. Resetting myself to being Nothing.
 Months later, I asked the high Priest about it. He said he is always aware of me... but I was beig invisible so he went along with it. Heh.

 I did some shower tantra with him, a few years back, and he chenneled Herne and that was the only time I have had an orgasm slam into me like a frieght train. He gave me the five fold kiss of the Goddess afterwards, and since that day we have this connection. He is hyper-aware of me like sexual radar and so sensitive to my pheremones that recently he asked to test whether he could get a full erection from two sniffs of my neck... he did.
  So.. that Beltaine day he could feel my presence but he could not see me.

:Why does being invisible means that you are an ascended Master? Could there not be people who succeed with a Sidhi of invisibility and are still not ascended Masters?

Sure!

:I am anyway very inspired to be such a Being. Can you please show me the way?

This course is it.

:Is it enough to saturate the body with light? You mention that when you take the karma from people you get heavier and are then not on the level of ascended Master. I too notice that helping people makes me heavier, but I thought that it is because I still have to learn to be immersed in the light till  everything is only and always light and consciousness. Is it not so?

On the higher chakra dimensions, everything physical is already made of light. There is nowhere to go and nothing to do.

 In the body, there are the fears of karma, and it makes light vibrate more slowly... lower vibration light, is matter.  Makes illness and worry. Take on karma from people, get heavier... and more visible. Yet... the more you clear the karma from your body, the higher it's vibration gets. Like retuning an instrument to a higher octave. The chakra-notes are the same notes but tuned to a higher octave. Some notes are outside the human range of hearing just like some kinds of light, infrared and ultraviolet are outside the physical human eye's ability to recieve.

  When you clear stuff from other people, what is resonant of your own stuff, clears too. So, the more you do the healing work, the more your vibration increases because you clear the blockages that are lower vibration energy, out of you.

 That payback of my own spiritual growth was all the wages I took for being a healer, for many years... wonderful abundance. After a while tho, the payback was not the same because there was not stuff in me needing to be cleared. To regain the win-win balance I asked to be paid cash. In many ways, it makes a cleaner dynamic because it does not leave anyone with a sense of indebtedness that might make them want to avoid me later.

: I thought if you are an Ascended Master I can may be communicate with you without internet, so I sent you all love and did feel your presence very strongly...

You bet! I get around! Someone wrote to me today that they were hearing me making comments specific to their process, while reading a lesson.

 Part of being ascended is that my energy body becomes more powerful. Like, my higher self becomes almost physical in the power of its presence. The two aspects are more closely merged. It IS hard to describe...

 Any of my students can call on me for assistance at any time. Just think to connect to my higher self rather than my physical self.

The part of me that is outside of time can effortlessly do a hundred things at once while my linear self is eating breakfast. Distracting to have people pulling at my physical self, wanting attention. I have my own life to live, ya know?

 The spell on FST redirects seekers to my higher self autopilot. So, even when my linear self is "out to lunch" as I apparently have been for the past few weeks, (Kind of puzzled at that, but oh well.. I'm back! LOL!! )

 Ascended masters presence feels different from the average ghost. Ghosts are fragments, lost in their memories. Masters are whole, and fully present in the here and now. Aware.
 I am here for you.

: Thank you for your help and blessings
: DeviRam

Thank you for your patience! You are lovely... Blessings!

: : Hello Mystress, I am now at lesson 4 of the course, I do not really understand yet what you mean by Dominatrix, slave, nor what your student meant in her essay over sadism or masochism.. I must admit I find it difficult to see what all this has to do with Tantra, but may be it will be clear later...

: You are so sweet! You do not see it, because it is natural for you... and partly because you are really not in your body enough to understand it. It is of the body.

:   Dominance is what you do in your healing work. People give you their power and you use that power to do things with them. Change them. They are your slave, for a little while. You take on responsibility and ownership for parts of their ego- karma.

:   Dominance is leadership, in the broadest sense.

:    The SM stuff is about using that dynamic for sexual pleasure.

:   Sadism is how I laugh when I hit the remote control to the electric dog collar that druid puts around his penis and balls. Maschocism is how he likes to feel vulnerable in that way, so much that he would buy an electic dog collar and adjust it to fit his most vulnerable place... and give me the remote control. he is giving me power, and wants me to demonstrate my power over him. When he surrenders to that, it changes the pain to pleasure and he gets tons of tantric energy plus blissful endorphins. When I torture druid in pleasurable ways, he gets so fired up with shakti that he gets kriyas of laughing uncontrollably and speaking in tongues. Everybody else laughs too, the energy is so contagious. It is total bliss of a type you cannot feel unless you are in your body.

:   Even when you do get into your body, you may not want to play these games. Finding interest in acting them out is a sexual orientation, a polarity... but power games is also something all humans do. People who are interested in them enough to act them out, have an eye opening experience in learning how they are played unconsciously by everybody, and how that is the root of human unhappiness.

:   It is a metaphor for our relationship to the Divine. The strength that comes of vulnerability and humility... how gratitude can change the pain in life, to pleasure. It is Shamanic, too... it changes your relationship to your body. Pain can be wonderfully focusing.

:    To the extent we resist pain, we shut ourselves off to pleasure too. You left your body to escape the pain of life, and now you cannot orgasm. As your body heals through surrender to the Divine Beloved, your ability to feel pleasure will increase more than you can even imagine.

: : I read in one of your links that you are an Ascended Master. Is an ascended Master someone who has infused her body so much with light that the body is pure light and can be taken with her after death?

: Yes, and not necessarily. Many yogis decide to take on a lot of karma when they are ready to go, and let the body wear out. In that case, the body will be left behind, surrendered for Goddess to transmute the karma through the natural processes of decay. But the energy body which is like a blueprint for the physical, has become so strong and clear that they can use it to manifest themselves to continue to care for their devotees and other seekers. The physical sheath is abandoned, but the energy body has become very strong and they take that with them. So, they do not get lost in time and memories like regular ghosts do. They have presence and are able to affect the physical world.  

:  It is a little difficult to define what an ascended Master is, because as soon as you begin to define it you come into the question of what is physical... matter is energy. How that looks is very different, for each chakra dimension.

:  When I asked about my invisibility, I was told that my body was vibrating faster than light... the light could not catch it, to bounce off of so I would be visible. Goes straight through and reflects what is behind me, back to the eye of the beholder.

:   At the same time, though it comes when I am not aware of myself. When my consciousness is merged with my surroundings and I have not boundaries of self-not self. No ego. Ego is the separation. The arua is a shadow of karma. It has also been observed when I am out of body... off in my mind checking on someone. Not present.

:   I remember one occasion... it was very memorable. I was attending Beltaine.. a 3 day pagan event every May. Beautiful sunny day. I showed up around noon with two friends and a 16' high wickerman, and the people at the gate welcomed us. We set about putting up our tent, etc... then I started wandering around the site. It was odd, I would wave hello to people I have known for years and there was no recognition. I wondered if I had done something to offend them, but that seemed unlikely so I let it go.
:   All through the ritual, the High Priest (a close friend) seemed to be skipping past me when he went around the circle smudging and sprinkling people. I thought that was odd but did not worry.
:   It was not until after the ritual that it occurred to me that I was invisible. I laughed to myself, and simply opened to accepting some ambient karma to lower my vibration so I could be social. Then, people started saying hello to me and asking when I had arrived. LOL!!
:   Because I had taken on Pagan karma, I grew a pagan ego for the weekend. It poured rain all night, and at one point someone commented on it and I said it was symbolic of fertility... Beltaine is a spring fertility ritual. He looked me in the eye and said, "that is what you believe?" and ... hard to explain, because while it was what I felt in the moment, there was some part of me that knew the belief was situational but I could not explain it. I was being Pagan, pagan karma and a pagan ego. When I am ascended, I feel no need to find reasons for what Is. Rain is just rain, it just Is. After we came home from the event, I slept 12 hours, shedding the karma I had taken on. Resetting myself to being Nothing.
:   Months later, I asked the high Priest about it. He said he is always aware of me... but I was beig invisible so he went along with it. Heh.

:   I did some shower tantra with him, a few years back, and he chenneled Herne and that was the only time I have had an orgasm slam into me like a frieght train. He gave me the five fold kiss of the Goddess afterwards, and since that day we have this connection. He is hyper-aware of me like sexual radar and so sensitive to my pheremones that recently he asked to test whether he could get a full erection from two sniffs of my neck... he did.
:    So.. that Beltaine day he could feel my presence but he could not see me.

: :Why does being invisible means that you are an ascended Master? Could there not be people who succeed with a Sidhi of invisibility and are still not ascended Masters?

: Sure!

: :I am anyway very inspired to be such a Being. Can you please show me the way?

: This course is it.

: :Is it enough to saturate the body with light? You mention that when you take the karma from people you get heavier and are then not on the level of ascended Master. I too notice that helping people makes me heavier, but I thought that it is because I still have to learn to be immersed in the light till  everything is only and always light and consciousness. Is it not so?

: On the higher chakra dimensions, everything physical is already made of light. There is nowhere to go and nothing to do.

:   In the body, there are the fears of karma, and it makes light vibrate more slowly... lower vibration light, is matter.  Makes illness and worry. Take on karma from people, get heavier... and more visible. Yet... the more you clear the karma from your body, the higher it's vibration gets. Like retuning an instrument to a higher octave. The chakra-notes are the same notes but tuned to a higher octave. Some notes are outside the human range of hearing just like some kinds of light, infrared and ultraviolet are outside the physical human eye's ability to recieve.

:    When you clear stuff from other people, what is resonant of your own stuff, clears too. So, the more you do the healing work, the more your vibration increases because you clear the blockages that are lower vibration energy, out of you.

:   That payback of my own spiritual growth was all the wages I took for being a healer, for many years... wonderful abundance. After a while tho, the payback was not the same because there was not stuff in me needing to be cleared. To regain the win-win balance I asked to be paid cash. In many ways, it makes a cleaner dynamic because it does not leave anyone with a sense of indebtedness that might make them want to avoid me later.

: : I thought if you are an Ascended Master I can may be communicate with you without internet, so I sent you all love and did feel your presence very strongly...

: You bet! I get around! Someone wrote to me today that they were hearing me making comments specific to their process, while reading a lesson.

:   Part of being ascended is that my energy body becomes more powerful. Like, my higher self becomes almost physical in the power of its presence. The two aspects are more closely merged. It IS hard to describe...

:   Any of my students can call on me for assistance at any time. Just think to connect to my higher self rather than my physical self.

:  The part of me that is outside of time can effortlessly do a hundred things at once while my linear self is eating breakfast. Distracting to have people pulling at my physical self, wanting attention. I have my own life to live, ya know?

:   The spell on FST redirects seekers to my higher self autopilot. So, even when my linear self is "out to lunch" as I apparently have been for the past few weeks, (Kind of puzzled at that, but oh well.. I'm back! LOL!! )

:   Ascended masters presence feels different from the average ghost. Ghosts are fragments, lost in their memories. Masters are whole, and fully present in the here and now. Aware.
:   I am here for you.

:
: : Thank you for your help and blessings
: : DeviRam

:   Thank you for your patience! You are lovely... Blessings!

JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK-YOU FOR THE QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS,,,,TRUELY AMAZING STUFF AND I LOVE IT..BLESSINGS EVERY MOMENT... OF CORSE I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT THE FST SPELL, I AM TRUELY GRATEFUL.... ALOHA NICA