Merci Mystress, for the beautiful lesson on surrendering the ego-self. The lesson was very timely to help me surrender pains from childhood and teenage, and it is so great how you give a practical way to surrender... I love the magical sentence...

Please could a few ladies give me a feedback on orgasm? Is feeling intense happiness and pleasure, having pleasure spreading from the sex orgasm to the back and legs an orgasm? It is may be stupid, but I still do not know what an orgasm mean...
May be 1 or 2 of you would not mind te describe their orgasm so I finally can understand whether I have some or not?

Merci and much love
DeviRam

: Please could a few ladies give me a feedback on orgasm? Is feeling intense happiness and pleasure, having pleasure spreading from the sex orgasm to the back and legs an orgasm? It is may be stupid, but I still do not know what an orgasm mean...
: May be 1 or 2 of you would not mind te describe their orgasm so I finally can understand whether I have some or not?

hello DeviRam,

while i am not a woman, i have had experience with a lover questioning her ability to orgasm, or even feeling that she is not able to have one...

the psychology and feelngs i noticed in her were sometimes similar to "performance anxiety" and difficulty maintaining an erection for a man (which i have occasionally experienced)...

i suggest that focus on pleasure in the way your body is experiencing it, and allowing it to grow and develop in its own way, may be your best route to ecstasy...

while it is fine to discuss what other women feel at times when you are not making love, focusing on defining the sensation in a comparative way (during sexual experience) only servers to let the mind be active where it is best surrendered to whatever the body is actually feeling...

i hope this uninvited comment from a man is helpful and has respected the sensitivity and openness of your question to the women of the Tearoom...

warmly,

percyval

Hello Deviram,

What an appropriate subject title for your question.  

This is what an orgasm feels like for me:

Just prior to orgasm, everything is very still, and it feels as if there is an incredibly impossibly unbearable delicious fluttering up and down my body that builds and builds and builds to suddenly explode in my clitoris and vagina, radiating throughout my body.  There is a deep and rapid %ldquoclenching%rdquo and releasing of the vaginal walls mostly, but also anus and stomach region, that starts off more rapidly and intensely.  Let%rsquos not forget the radiating pleasure waves. This lasts anywhere from 7 seconds to maybe 20-40 seconds.  It fades into loving blissful gratitude, usually matching the intensity of the orgasm.

It would be interesting to know what an orgasm is like for someone more advanced on the tantric path...

If you have any more questions Deviram, I'll be happy to share what I know with you.  I hope this helps.

Love and Light,

KV

: Merci Mystress, for the beautiful lesson on surrendering the ego-self. The lesson was very timely to help me surrender pains from childhood and teenage, and it is so great how you give a practical way to surrender... I love the magical sentence...

: Please could a few ladies give me a feedback on orgasm? Is feeling intense happiness and pleasure, having pleasure spreading from the sex orgasm to the back and legs an orgasm? It is may be stupid, but I still do not know what an orgasm mean...
: May be 1 or 2 of you would not mind te describe their orgasm so I finally can understand whether I have some or not?

: Merci and much love
: DeviRam

: Hello friend, yes, you are most welcome and your answer is very wise and a good reminder...Sometimes I get into wondering about this orgasm business, I guess I better just receive the pleasure and bliss and unity I receive as a gift from Goddess and not try to put the mind into it...
Thank you and all light for you
: : Please could a few ladies give me a feedback on orgasm? Is feeling intense happiness and pleasure, having pleasure spreading from the sex orgasm to the back and legs an orgasm? It is may be stupid, but I still do not know what an orgasm mean...
: : May be 1 or 2 of you would not mind te describe their orgasm so I finally can understand whether I have some or not?

: hello DeviRam,

: while i am not a woman, i have had experience with a lover questioning her ability to orgasm, or even feeling that she is not able to have one...

: the psychology and feelngs i noticed in her were sometimes similar to "performance anxiety" and difficulty maintaining an erection for a man (which i have occasionally experienced)...

: i suggest that focus on pleasure in the way your body is experiencing it, and allowing it to grow and develop in its own way, may be your best route to ecstasy...

: while it is fine to discuss what other women feel at times when you are not making love, focusing on defining the sensation in a comparative way (during sexual experience) only servers to let the mind be active where it is best surrendered to whatever the body is actually feeling...

: i hope this uninvited comment from a man is helpful and has respected the sensitivity and openness of your question to the women of the Tearoom...

: warmly,

: percyval

: : Hello friend, yes, you are most welcome and your answer is very wise and a good reminder...Sometimes I get into wondering about this orgasm business, I guess I better just receive the pleasure and bliss and unity I receive as a gift from Goddess and not try to put the mind into it...
: Thank you and all light for you

Devi Ram,

  :-)  Percyval is a wise one, isn't he?  And Devi Ram, I like how you say "I guess I better just receive the pleasure and bliss and unity I receive as a gift from Goddess and not try to put the mind into it..."  I think that's what I keep reminding myself, about so many things!

 Enjoy the unfolding, Shara