Addressing Mystress correctly

holwe · May 09, 2005, 05:46:23 PM

Dear Mystress Angelique Serpent,

i am a student from Germany, so i apologize in advance, if my English might not be correct (by the way, i feel emotionally touched by the fact that something in You in some way is related to Germany, too - maybe i will come back to this later, if You allow).

i am married. My Wife knows that i take this course. She has no objections and hopes it will fire the bdsm aspects of our relationship. So far, so good.

But my Wife is a little bit suspicious, whether i am seeking a Mistress besides her. And to be honest, i also feel a little bit uncomfortable of talking to her about you as "Mystress".

i admit, that in the past she sometimes was right with her suspicion. But now I feel a purification of my emotions. i am looking for enlightenment and hope for spiritual guidance, also for a foundation for my femdom feelings, but my goal is far beyond that. i am truely seeking for renewal of my spirit. i regard You as my Spiritual Guide and Teacher, not as my Mistress (i hope, You can forgive me for that).

So I asked myself, how i could address You in a way, that in one way respects my Wife's feelings and my wish, not to be unfaithful to my Mistress, and on the other hand honor You in the You deserve it. Of course i respect that Goddess guided you to chose, that name of Yours, but hence She is wise and You are enlightened, maybe there is another way, i may call you. i really do love the Name "Mystress" and its implications as Mystic Mistress. But there is another Mistress in my life.

I thank You in advance.

Goddess bless You.

Yours sincerely,
holwe

Mystress · May 10, 2005, 03:04:23 PM

I triggered a load of karma on a local community email list I belong to, and you should hear what they are calling me now!! LOL!!
The list is private or I'd share some of the more colourful samples...
Do as you feel. Sweet and respectful for you to ask, but how you talk about me to your wife is not my concern... or any of my business.
I like being called Mystress, but I know some people feel wierd about it. I'm really not attached to titles and labels. So much more peaceful, to be nothing.
Blessings...

: Dear Mystress Angelique Serpent,

: i am a student from Germany, so i apologize in advance, if my English might not be correct (by the way, i feel emotionally touched by the fact that something in You in some way is related to Germany, too - maybe i will come back to this later, if You allow).

: i am married. My Wife knows that i take this course. She has no objections and hopes it will fire the bdsm aspects of our relationship. So far, so good.

: But my Wife is a little bit suspicious, whether i am seeking a Mistress besides her. And to be honest, i also feel a little bit uncomfortable of talking to her about you as "Mystress".

: i admit, that in the past she sometimes was right with her suspicion. But now I feel a purification of my emotions. i am looking for enlightenment and hope for spiritual guidance, also for a foundation for my femdom feelings, but my goal is far beyond that. i am truely seeking for renewal of my spirit. i regard You as my Spiritual Guide and Teacher, not as my Mistress (i hope, You can forgive me for that).

: So I asked myself, how i could address You in a way, that in one way respects my Wife's feelings and my wish, not to be unfaithful to my Mistress, and on the other hand honor You in the You deserve it. Of course i respect that Goddess guided you to chose, that name of Yours, but hence She is wise and You are enlightened, maybe there is another way, i may call you. i really do love the Name "Mystress" and its implications as Mystic Mistress. But there is another Mistress in my life.

: I thank You in advance.

: Goddess bless You.

: Yours sincerely,
: holwe