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Hey, Im a guy...W000

Started by Sean, Mar 04, 2002, 09:13:10 PM

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Sean

Hello everyone,


I'm pretty happy now. Just learned a lot about me. Being a sensitive person vs. run of the mill(less sensitive) type people. Before I only saw lots and lots of disadvantages. Now I kinda see more of what I can do eventually. nifty...


One thing that gets me mad though is all these support groups and things for women, and not me. I see things like..

"Spiritual group for women meets at yada yada ya.."
"Sensitive intuative spiritual support for your feminine needs..etc.."
"Weekly circle for women only.."

What the heck? This is discrimination! I'm a guy and probably have more spirituality in my left pinky than there entire group, and I cant get in. Blaa. Although, my local reiki lady is women only and she works her mojo on me hehe, that was a good deal for me. On the way out of a session one time one lady was early, she looked kinda shocked to see me there.. "Yea thats right, I'm a guy, step off", I thought with my look walking by...

Its hard being a guy in this area sometimes. A lot of these women who want to be spiritual are all down on guys for whatever reason. At least those I've met so far. I was going to hang out with the wiccan girls, but they scare me hehe.


Whats my point?.... Uh... Oh, yea... Wheres the guy stuff? All this stuff for mystical girls and things. Nothing for me. It brings me down when these girls go off on guys for being the way they are. There is no rite anymore. Collage is the closest thing. Girls get one automatically. Guys don't. And there is no understanding there. Just girls thinking that all boys are stupid, and guys getting confused and hurt. (me)


I mean at least sensitive girls can bond with the idea of being a priestess or healer or witch or gypsie or whatever. Its part of there past. And its pretty well documented and all. What do guys have? Nothing I know of...  I'm still new to this though...

Are there any guy legends/myths about doing cool things with this? I want something. Something to bond to. Something thats me. I can't be the only sensitive guy in history to do this stuff... I want a hero, a legend, a myth, a story. Whos got it? Just drop me some names... I feel like reading The Wheel of Time books now... cool... But I'd like a real story.

I've still got Jackie Chan Kung Fu though! Snake style! W000! Hyaa hyaaa (insert cheap sound effect) oohhhyyaa!


Ok take care...


Sean







Mystress

:  One thing that gets me mad though is all these support groups and things for women, and not me. I see things like..

:  "Spiritual group for women meets at yada yada ya.."
:  "Sensitive intuative spiritual support for your feminine needs..etc.."
:  "Weekly circle for women only.."

:  What the heck? This is discrimination! I'm a guy and probably have more spirituality in my left pinky than there entire group, and I cant get in. Blaa. Although, my local reiki lady is women only and she works her mojo on me hehe, that was a good deal for me. On the way out of a session one time one lady was early, she looked kinda shocked to see me there.. "Yea thats right, I'm a guy, step off", I thought with my look walking by...

:  Its hard being a guy in this area sometimes. A lot of these women who want to be spiritual are all down on guys for whatever reason. At least those I've met so far.

You are funny, Sean. Think of it this way; if you think you got a raw deal with religion, take a look at what women have to deal with. Unclean, no authority, and blame for all the sins of Eve. All your feelings about a secret religious conspiracy out to squash you? Women get it multiplied, with a power of fear of death. Moving away from Patriarchy, they project the stuff onto all men. Eventually, they have to come to terms with their own male side, get past blame and get over it... which hopefully is what the support groups are for.

: I was going to hang out with the wiccan girls, but they scare me hehe.

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:  Whats my point?.... Uh... Oh, yea... Wheres the guy stuff? All this stuff for mystical girls and things. Nothing for me. It brings me down when these girls go off on guys for being the way they are.

My husband handles it gracefully. He says, "I apologise on behalf of my gender."

: There is no rite anymore. Collage is the closest thing. Girls get one automatically. Guys don't. And there is no understanding there. Just girls thinking that all boys are stupid, and guys getting confused and hurt. (me)

Quit complaining and make up your own ritual.

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:  I mean at least sensitive girls can bond with the idea of being a priestess or healer or witch or gypsie or whatever. Its part of there past. And its pretty well documented and all. What do guys have? Nothing I know of...  I'm still new to this though...

How about the entire hierarchy of the Roman Catholic Priesthood? The history of the Masonic Mystery Schools... all men only. Women are reclaiming their power, same as you.

:  Are there any guy legends/myths about doing cool things with this? I want something. Something to bond to. Something thats me. I can't be the only sensitive guy in history to do this stuff... I want a hero, a legend, a myth, a story. Whos got it? Just drop me some names...

Heh... Jesus, Gandhi, Buddha... Merlin...;)

:I feel like reading The Wheel of Time books now... cool... But I'd like a real story.

Autobiography of a Yogi, by Parmahansa Yogananda. You can read it online but I think the online version is edited shorter. Incomplete. Url is below.

  Blessings!

:  I've still got Jackie Chan Kung Fu though! Snake style! W000! Hyaa hyaaa (insert cheap sound effect) oohhhyyaa!

:
:  Ok take care...

:
:  Sean

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Sean

Hello Mystress,


Cool post, I understand about this now. One day soon we will all be happy boys and happy girls again. Without fear or guilt or anything. I feel like I should make a song to let the girls know its all ok now. For everyone else too..


Ok later!

Sean




Sean


Hello,


Going along with my new things I am wanting. I got this movie in the romantic section called "Bliss". Whatever.. I was not sure even why I got it.. I didnt like the first part at all.. But then it all changed. It was about this guy who wants to heal his wife and goes out learning all about spirituality and sex and healing and everything starting from nothing. All told from a guys view with lots of talking about guy things. I loved it! It meant soo much to me. It was exactly what I was looking for. I've got my new hero hehe. Great movie! I was laughing through most of it.

Anyways this opened up me to who I am, or at least showed me what is natural for me to be. I know that I'm not a stupid worthless boy anymore. Which is what I end up getting from many girls I run into now. I am careing, understanding. I am an empowerer. I am the holder of a key. An awakener. I am balance. I am powerfull. I am a healer. I am a guy! My name is Sean. Step back and watch my heart shine!

Woohoo! I feel so good understanding all of this! I feel so in touch with me. Been laughing most of the day all smiley. I see so many things open up with just this understanding. Now I'm going to go out and find more out about this stuff!  I put this new understanding in my heart and let it flow out to the rest of my body. It feels pretty good all over. No, it feels great!

I can't wait to try this all out and learn more. Its just so funny, I asked, and I got. Cool! LOL I can't wait to run into the spiritual girls now. They are in for a surprise! Woohoo! I imagine things will go A LOT BETTER THAN BEFORE... I've got the key! I've got the key! They need the key! I bet they will see it too :)

I am Sean