The Tea Room

  I am farther into the lessons than this one, but thought I should comment on this lesson since the first time I read it my reaction was one of dis-interest and just wanting to skip over it.
I think I have given myself away most my life surrendering to what my mate felt he wanted, paying no attention to my own needs. I didn't begin to KNOW myself.  The last 4 years I feel I have begun to know myself much better and I am now in a place of peace with my sexuality and the sharing of it.
Although, I am not interesetd in the BDSM scenario at this time and have no opportunity to participate in it right now, I feel that if the situation came to me I could find my place in it.
I am not repulsed nor enticed by BDSM, I'm hoping that is a reflection that I am knowing myself now.
Open to learning,
Sue

P.S.  Just recently I had an empath exprience where I was told that a friends husband was bi- sexual in his orientation.  She told me he is into the swinger scene. I had a very difficult time with this information that was shared.  I am hoping that what I picked up on was my friends heart space and how she was dealing with the information, not my own information and feelings about this type of orientation versus straight sex.  It is my desire to just allow people their own choices in this.I am troubled that some of my  feelings came from what I think is right and wrong.  It is my desire to just be able to look at things and respond, "It just IS."
To do away with empathing and my own emotional response letting information just flow over me like water.  It troubles me that perhaps I did not do this in this case, but felt Old stereo types in myself along with empathic feelings for my friend.

:   I am farther into the lessons than this one, but thought I should comment on this lesson since the first time I read it my reaction was one of dis-interest and just wanting to skip over it.
:  I think I have given myself away most my life surrendering to what my mate felt he wanted, paying no attention to my own needs. I didn't begin to KNOW myself.  The last 4 years I feel I have begun to know myself much better and I am now in a place of peace with my sexuality and the sharing of it.
: Although, I am not interesetd in the BDSM scenario at this time and have no opportunity to participate in it right now, I feel that if the situation came to me I could find my place in it.
: I am not repulsed nor enticed by BDSM, I'm hoping that is a reflection that I am knowing myself now.
: Open to learning,
: Sue

What about %ldquoordinary%rdquo tantric sex, at http://www.tantra.com/ for instance?

  Hello, sue:

 I think you sorta missed the point of this lesson, which is consensuality. SM people get more conscious of it, that is of value to the Kundalini process. Blessings...

:   I am farther into the lessons than this one, but thought I should comment on this lesson since the first time I read it my reaction was one of dis-interest and just wanting to skip over it.
:  I think I have given myself away most my life surrendering to what my mate felt he wanted, paying no attention to my own needs. I didn't begin to KNOW myself.  The last 4 years I feel I have begun to know myself much better and I am now in a place of peace with my sexuality and the sharing of it.
: Although, I am not interesetd in the BDSM scenario at this time and have no opportunity to participate in it right now, I feel that if the situation came to me I could find my place in it.
: I am not repulsed nor enticed by BDSM, I'm hoping that is a reflection that I am knowing myself now.
: Open to learning,
: Sue

Oh....   sigh...
Rolling my eyeballs at myself.

:   Hello, sue:

:   I think you sorta missed the point of this lesson, which is consensuality. SM people get more conscious of it, that is of value to the Kundalini process. Blessings...

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: :   I am farther into the lessons than this one, but thought I should comment on this lesson since the first time I read it my reaction was one of dis-interest and just wanting to skip over it.
: :  I think I have given myself away most my life surrendering to what my mate felt he wanted, paying no attention to my own needs. I didn't begin to KNOW myself.  The last 4 years I feel I have begun to know myself much better and I am now in a place of peace with my sexuality and the sharing of it.
: : Although, I am not interesetd in the BDSM scenario at this time and have no opportunity to participate in it right now, I feel that if the situation came to me I could find my place in it.
: : I am not repulsed nor enticed by BDSM, I'm hoping that is a reflection that I am knowing myself now.
: : Open to learning,
: : Sue