Dear Vyana
I would like to thank you so much for this post.
Mystress I'm sure, will be able to give you an answer suited to your personal requirements.
But this triggered so much for me.
The grounding is an on going practise.
Its important to stay grounded.
When I'm not grounded I try to change or control what is not mine to control.
when I'm not grounded I get overwhelmed, confused and frightened.
When I'm not grounded I'm in my head, rather than fully here.
I do weird things. I agree to things before I'm ready, force stituations that would other wise be fine and find myself in a right pickle.
Big learning curve, and I'm only on the first bit!
I'm now off to do a ton of grounding and to thank my lucky stars that goddess is here.
good luck Vyana
Namaste
Squirell
: Dear Vyana
: I would like to thank you so much for this post.
: Mystress I'm sure, will be able to give you an answer suited to your personal requirements.
: But this triggered so much for me.
: The grounding is an on going practise.
: Its important to stay grounded.
: When I'm not grounded I try to change or control what is not mine to control.
: when I'm not grounded I get overwhelmed, confused and frightened.
: When I'm not grounded I'm in my head, rather than fully here.
: I do weird things. I agree to things before I'm ready, force stituations that would other wise be fine and find myself in a right pickle.
: Big learning curve, and I'm only on the first bit!
: I'm now off to do a ton of grounding and to thank my lucky stars that goddess is here.
: good luck Vyana
: Namaste
: Squirell
: : Dear Vyana
: : I would like to thank you so much for this post.
: : Mystress I'm sure, will be able to give you an answer suited to your personal requirements.
: : But this triggered so much for me.
: : The grounding is an on going practise.
: : Its important to stay grounded.
: : When I'm not grounded I try to change or control what is not mine to control.
: : when I'm not grounded I get overwhelmed, confused and frightened.
: : When I'm not grounded I'm in my head, rather than fully here.
: : I do weird things. I agree to things before I'm ready, force stituations that would other wise be fine and find myself in a right pickle.
: : Big learning curve, and I'm only on the first bit!
: : I'm now off to do a ton of grounding and to thank my lucky stars that goddess is here.
: : good luck Vyana
: : Namaste
: : Squirell
Dear Vyana, Squirell!
For me the grounding meditation is constant. I do it several times a day still, taking time to do it thoroughly and then throughout the day I check if I am grounded whenever it occurs to me (which is often)
It always brings up in me what aspect that is -not- grounded at the moment so I can work with it.
If you read my little interaction with Mystress in that other thread you can see how. ;)
Love
Gustaf
: But, tomorrow I will (I hope) have been doing the grounding exercise eight times a day for 45 days (or actually, one day, when I was on vacation, it was only seven, but I hope that does not matter much?). What should I do then? Just drop it? Use it just when I feel I need it?
: : Probably I have just missed something important.
:
: Yup! The goal is to establish a habit of being grounded, to be grounded all the time. Keep at it!
: : But, tomorrow I will (I hope) have been doing the grounding exercise eight times a day for 45 days (or actually, one day, when I was on vacation, it was only seven, but I hope that does not matter much?). What should I do then? Just drop it? Use it just when I feel I need it?
: OK, but would 4 or 6 times a day be enough?
:
: : : Probably I have just missed something important.
: :
: : Yup! The goal is to establish a habit of being grounded, to be grounded all the time. Keep at it!
:
: : : But, tomorrow I will (I hope) have been doing the grounding exercise eight times a day for 45 days (or actually, one day, when I was on vacation, it was only seven, but I hope that does not matter much?). What should I do then? Just drop it? Use it just when I feel I need it?